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If someone had told us in the fall of 2002 that we would have been
dressing up our two babies in Buckeye outfits right now, we would have
never believed it. Our road to becoming a complete family was
long, arduous, and fraught with disappointment, heartache, and tears.
To the best of my recollection, our journey started in 2000. My OB
prescribed clomid for three months at increasing doses. She never
performed any tests on me or suggested that Ron get checked out. The
clomid made me crazy, and it didn't work. We finally sought the
advice of Dr. Chin, who came highly recommended to us.
It turned out that Ron and I both had problems. I had polycystic
ovarian disease. Ron had a low sperm count and needed surgery to
correct a varicocele. Dr. Chin put me on glucophage to combat the
PCOS. We did more rounds of Repronex injections and IUI than I care to
count. We even did back to back IUI treatments a few times. We finally
got pregnant in July 2002. We were ecstatic!!! Unfortunately, Dr. Chin
had to break the bad news to us that the baby was not developing. We
were crushed.
Right after that and before I miscarried, my left ovary twisted over
on itself three times. I was in the hospital all day, but I had Dr.
Chin on my speed dial and called him every time there was a new
development with my treatment and care. He talked to another doctor at
the hospital about my situation and reassured me that the doctor would
help me. That doctor performed a laparoscopic surgery and returned my
ovary to its normal position. I was discharged from the hospital that
night. About a week later, I miscarried seven weeks into my pregnancy.
It was horrible, but Dr. Chin had prepared me for it both emotionally
and physically.
A couple of weeks later (October 2002), my left ovary twisted again.
The pain was excruciating. I just couldn't believe this was happening
to me again with all that we had already gone through. How much was
God going to give us? We went to the hospital. Dr. Chin was called at
three o'clock in the morning. Through all the pain medication, I
remember Ron telling me, "Dani, they called Dr. Chin. He sounds awake
and alert. He'll be here soon." I knew then that it was bad, but I
also knew that I was going to be in good hands. Dr. Chin arrived and
explained the procedure to me where he was going to flip the ovary
back and remove part of it to prevent it from flipping in the future.
During surgery, Dr. Chin discovered that the ovary was dead and
removed it. When I found out, I was devastated, but I had absolutely
no worries because I knew that Dr. Chin had my best interests at
heart. He wanted me to get pregnant as badly as I wanted to be
pregnant.
Now with one ovary, I really felt like getting pregnant was a pipe
dream. Dr. Chin encouraged us. He was positive, had a great attitude,
and felt that we could still get pregnant with IUI. We did the IUI
again in December 2002. It didn't work, and we had to take January off
to let my ovary recover from the medication. I was hurt because I saw
my chances of getting pregnant go from 12 times a year to 6. We tried
again in February 2003. It didn't work. I thought we were going to
have to wait again until April, but Dr. Chin said that my ovary was
okay and that we could try in March. At that point, Ron and I began
discussing IVF. Dr. Chin thought it would be a good option for us. We
made the appointment and then tried the IUI with Dr. Chin one last
time in March 2003. We were so happy to discover that it worked and we
were pregnant.
I began bleeding at 5 1/2 weeks. I called Dr. Chin on that
Saturday morning. He said to come right in. I cried the whole way to
his office, during the short wait in the packed waiting room, and
throughout the ultrasound--right up to the point that Dr. Chin told me
it was twins! We had to wait another week or so to see the heartbeats.
That was a great day when Dr. Chin showed us our babies' heartbeats on
the ultrasound. A medical miracle and a blessing from God!! Dr.
Chin released us to my OB, and I had a smooth pregnancy after that.
The twins were born on November 20, 2003.
Dr. Chin is an amazing doctor. He personally greeted us in the waiting
room on our first visit. Everytime we came to his office, he knew our
names, shook our hands, and asked about our personal lives outside of
fertility treatments. In three years of treatment, I don't recall an
appointment ever running late. I've only seen his office crowded one
time, and that was on a Saturday morning when they squeezed me in. One
time I had to leave for an appointment right after my dog escaped from
the backyard. I arrived at Dr. Chin's office in tears. He and the
staff were very concerned. After that, he frequently asked how our
Houdini dog was doing. I was helping my sister plan her wedding, and
Dr. Chin called me at home one afternoon just to give me some ideas on
where to have her outdoor reception. He came in on a Sunday once to do
our IUI treatment. He took every phone call that I made to him while I
was in the hospital for my first twisted ovary episode even though I
was interrupting his tennis game. Dr. Chin personally called after my
surgeries and after the babies were born to check in on us. We have
just been amazed at his warmth, compassion, and personal touch. A
special thanks to all the ladies in the office as well!! Sandy, Grace,
Candy, Connie, Melinda, and Debra always made our visits more
enjoyable.
Thanks Dr. Chin and staff for helping us with our miracle babies!!! We
are forever grateful.
Ron and Dani
Ella and Kyle
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Angie and Jim |
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